Control Does NOT = Power

There is a false belief that control = power.

The exact opposite is true.

Control is when we’re not fully owning our internal power. So, we try to control external circumstances like other people’s behaviors or beliefs. We try to coerce or manipulate everything from how our bodies look to how other people should look or live their lives.

True power is when we’re so dialed into who we are and our own needs, desires & wants that we can meet those needs without needing to change anyone or anything around us. We feel internally safe & connected to Source, that we become un-fuck-with-able.

Control isn’t real. You can’t control outcomes. You DEFINITELY can’t control people. You can’t control your body. You can’t control your thoughts. You can’t control anything…

All you can control is your actions… the outcome will be whatever it turns out to be. If it’s not the outcome you want, then it’s time to adjust your actions.

To fully be empowered, you must let go of control. True power takes surrender… a trust that you will be okay, regardless of outcome… a faith that you are being Divinely led with each step you take, and although you cannot see the path, you know that each brick will be placed in front of you as you move forward.

That is power.

XO,

Stacie